Anonymous asked:
i cut i starve and i vomit. i'm only 14 and i dunno what to do. i'm trying to stop, i really am. i'm seeing the school councilor, she's amazing at what she does. but my friends at school cut, and 3 of them have already been dobbed into the principle and parents. i know im next as well. if my parents found out, my life would be over, everything and all my freedom would be taken away from me. my bestfriend already went through it and she says it does get better. any advice on ways to fully stop? x
ok first im so proud of you for going to the school councilor, that takes a lot of strength and courage. I understand you are afraid of your parents finding out. Do you think you need to see a therapist outside of school? because they wont tell your parents anything unless you plan to kill yourself. This is a long journey but i know you can do this. Find things that make you feel whole, things that fill you up. Like singing is that for me and my really close friends. Find things that make you feel safe, i like to meditate and go to church. Start doing little things for yourself like extra long showers or drinking more water. Those small acts can have a huge impact on you self view. good luck with this and stay strong<3
